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Marriage

April 19, 2014

Lord please bring my husband to his knees. His lies deceit and sexual relationship destroyed our family. But he thinks he is walking with God

Friend's Salvation

April 15, 2014

Please pray for Alyssa who is claiming to be an atheist. Ask for her to be broken and humbled before God. May she surrender to God and glorify Him by living the life He created her to live. Thank you.

obstinate wife/separation

April 09, 2014

I just ask that you pray as you read this that God could speak to you, its long and confusing and it makes no sense at all. My spouse Katie and I were married for 14 yrss. We have two kids that God blessed us with a boy and a girl. My wife was raised Catholic her dad and mom married from the convent. I was raised under the world wide church of God, then identified myself as Evangical. During out 14 yrs of marriage, I had issues with porn,(internet) and I was not the Godly husband I should have been. She was always tired, I got frustrated tried to add porn into our lives and that was a big lie. She left in 08 because she said she was done, she asked me to go to counseling, but I thought I could solve this on my own, as I look back I don't know why I didn't go to counseling. We went to counseling at Genesis in 08, but she didn't like it and I didn't push it. I felt really bad. She found another man, that made me so mad and then I went and dated other women. There was a point when she told me there was trust building yet she was telling me to go out with friends go have "fun". I told her about the other women a repeat of what happened in our 1st yr of marriage, where I felt attracted to another woman but not in love with her. This has been a mess, there is a wall between us from her. She doesn't want me to love her, doesn't want me to wear my wedding ring, says it hurts the kids, yet she is divorced in her heart, we are still married by the state of Washington even though we have not been together in 6yrs. She still wants me to come over for B-days, holidays, kids games, yet no marriage, we aren't even friends. I dread being around a stranger and she acts like this is ok. No one understands whats happening. For 6yrs its been nothing but silence from God, its like God doesn't care and wants this. I hate my wife I hate her and I feel ok with hating her. People say I shouldn't have all this bitterness, anger, well Im sorry, I don't have joy and happiness living like Im divorced but still married to her on paper. And Yes I have tried 3X to divorce her I gave her the papers to sign, she never turned them in nor gave papers back to me WHY? This is a woman who says she cant be in a physical relationship or trust me, yet she hasn't divorced me and wants divorce, tells people we are not together. And its no big deal to her, but it bothers me. I let go of her, by hating her not caring wether she lives or dies, I don't care what happens to her, there are plenty of other step moms who take over and she can have another man, its what most so-called Christians do now anyway. Divorce is the answer to solve problems, God is not saving troubled marriages including mine, he blesses people with other spouses, step parents, blended families, so divorce most be ok I hear other Christians tell me to divorce, let her go, do this do that, Im sick of other Christians who act like divorce is no big deal, and that God blessed them with someone else. Im tired. Im depressed. I have no hope left I don't care about her at all, im at peace with hating her, its better than continuing to love a obstinate wife who doesn't love me back. Im wasting my time. I need prayers I need Gods help Im sick of living this way, I don't know what to do, please Im asking for prayers, I acknowledge my sins I confess my failure at being the husband I should've been. Her and I strangers not even friends, our kids look at us and don't understand why we live like this, they have stopped praying for us not to divorce and get back together, I believe they've given up like me. They know that their mom and I don't talk unless forced to. I don't even know how to relate to her at all, she is dead to me and God thinks this is ok and bringing him glory??? Right, something is wrong, reading Gods word, helping poor people, church aint going to heal this, there needs to be intervention. I flushed my wedding ring down the toilet 6months ago, it will NEVER come back. I told her did it and she said that was stupid, but again nothing bothers her, God blesses her she can date other men which I know she is, she denies it but I know to well. I cant date, I cant event talk to another woman I have no interest plus I don't care, woman are problems with baggage, kids from other men, don't want it and don't care. I would tell any Christian man, don't do what I did wasting prayers on a obstinate wife who doesn't care and doesn't want to give you another chance, don't pray, just divorce don't fight for your marriage, that's all I got from other Christians. I know this is heavy but what I said is the truth, its hard to breathe, part of wants to love her but cant cause she doesnt love me. I hate her and I make no apologies say what you want, but I hate her wish I never married her and Im sure she feels the same, except she tries to act like a family for the kids sake what a lie. I hate this situation, I have lived this for 6yrs with her and our kids. I will never text or speak to her again Ill go through our kids, I begging for help, prayers


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